The hottest way to book a date

Date with intention.
Pay for connection.

FLAM is the premium date-booking platform where you swipe, request, and book real dates. No endless chatting — just genuine connections backed by commitment.

Free to join. Pay only when you book a date.

How FLAM Works

Three steps to your perfect date

01

Swipe & Discover

Browse profiles with photo galleries, bios, and ideal date descriptions. Swipe right to request a date.

02

Book & Pay

Send a date request with a personal message. Once accepted, pay securely via PayPal to confirm the booking.

03

Chat & Connect

After payment is confirmed, the chat unlocks. Plan your perfect date together.

Why FLAM?

Commitment-First

No ghosting. Payment confirms both parties are serious about the date.

Set Your Own Price

List your ideal date and set a price that reflects your time and the experience.

Bidirectional Requests

Anyone can request a date — both men and women can make the first move.

Chat After Booking

Messaging unlocks only after payment, keeping conversations meaningful.

Secure Payments

All transactions are processed securely through PayPal.

Real Profiles

Photo galleries, bios, interests, and ideal date descriptions for genuine matching.

Ready to ignite your love life?

Join FLAM today and start booking dates that actually happen.